tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post6702118395751758913..comments2023-05-02T13:30:43.414+01:00Comments on Emma And Alfie: Too young to be a mum?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-26185839871721946052014-02-14T22:55:55.289+00:002014-02-14T22:55:55.289+00:00I shouldn't let what people think about me bot...I shouldn't let what people think about me bother me but it does :( .. xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09709643805251426844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-25544076341296470462014-02-14T11:31:01.868+00:002014-02-14T11:31:01.868+00:00There is so much judging you're right. Some p...There is so much judging you're right. Some people need the extra help but it shouldn't be assumed everyone does. Unfortunately I think becoming a mother means we're always judged :( Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-17614139463715250612014-02-13T23:49:25.403+00:002014-02-13T23:49:25.403+00:00We shouldn't care but it's hard not to! xx...We shouldn't care but it's hard not to! xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09709643805251426844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-76821287233557287632014-02-13T22:27:26.053+00:002014-02-13T22:27:26.053+00:00I know how you feel! I'm fed up of the dirty l...I know how you feel! I'm fed up of the dirty looks and some people assuming I'm useless because I'm a young parent. I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me, I try not to let it bother me but it does :( xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15480505228165085349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-32832172244736084492014-02-12T23:23:00.920+00:002014-02-12T23:23:00.920+00:00That's ok hun and thanks for the comment :)That's ok hun and thanks for the comment :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09709643805251426844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-72816854024764315672014-02-12T23:22:33.905+00:002014-02-12T23:22:33.905+00:00It'll come in handy when we're see haha!It'll come in handy when we're see haha! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09709643805251426844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-50291768004502244742014-02-12T23:22:00.414+00:002014-02-12T23:22:00.414+00:00Thank you, I worry too much about what people thin...Thank you, I worry too much about what people think about me xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09709643805251426844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-67378353351050620112014-02-12T23:21:16.748+00:002014-02-12T23:21:16.748+00:00Thank you Caroline for the lovely comment :)Thank you Caroline for the lovely comment :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09709643805251426844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-44470674704942387852014-02-12T23:20:50.511+00:002014-02-12T23:20:50.511+00:00Exactly, it annoys me so much!Exactly, it annoys me so much!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09709643805251426844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-75378187976665793632014-02-12T17:08:15.906+00:002014-02-12T17:08:15.906+00:00Thanks for linking to my post.
You are so right, ...Thanks for linking to my post.<br /><br />You are so right, as long as Alfie is happy then there is no worries about your age! XxJess | A Whole Nine Monthshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16237274881632558200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-32902268400239386772014-02-11T23:19:37.067+00:002014-02-11T23:19:37.067+00:00I had a recent run in with a HV, not for the same ...I had a recent run in with a HV, not for the same reason as you but it's turned me against them a bit! Don't you worry about them assuming things about you! You are doing fine and Alfie is happy thats all that matters! Im 5'2 and get told I look younger than I am... good for us! Lauren - Scrapbook Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13765315349290974852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-55944009830661867052014-02-11T21:27:29.383+00:002014-02-11T21:27:29.383+00:00Why do I have a funny feeling I know the estate yo...Why do I have a funny feeling I know the estate you mean. I know what you mean. I used to get comments about being young with a baby but am I right into believing that at 16 some people used to be married and pregnant so what's with all the judging? I don't see how just because I look a certain way or because of my age that gives anyone the right to judge me for what I'm doing with my life. Chin up and ignore them. You have a happy healthy baby then that's all that matters xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08309053407798253120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-40063615044563109632014-02-11T20:00:56.280+00:002014-02-11T20:00:56.280+00:00It's the age old debate, that also ties with, ...It's the age old debate, that also ties with, 'too old to be a mum'. I have strong views on both, but these are my own opinions. Yes, there are a lot of 16 year olds with a 'good head on their shoulders', but they're 16. They've had no life. It's not about how they would be as a parent, as young or old, we all have to learn, no ones born a parent. With young mums 12-18, I personally think you need life experiences, go out, go travelling, enjoy your friends. <br />Too old mums, 50+ I see as selfish. They may be satsfying their need to be a parent, but how's that child going to feel or grow up? When the child gets to leaving school the parent will be 66+ and poss of poor health.. Yes, only could die at anytime, but being 66 when your child is in their prime doesn't sound my idea of a good parent.<br />I wouldn't take offence by what the childrens centre lady said to you, personally I think it's good them holding such workshops and offering it, <br />You are a perfectly fine parent, working and stable. Don't doubt yourself and let people get to you. :)<br /><br />Caroline.xCarolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03007296783721236903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7067905009732269693.post-24454251026234343102014-02-11T17:43:20.042+00:002014-02-11T17:43:20.042+00:00Like you, I'm 5ft and ridiculously young looki...Like you, I'm 5ft and ridiculously young looking. I got so many looks when pregnant, and even more pushing Rio around pregnant again! ..but like you say, they don't take into consideration that I've been with Craig 6+ years, live together, car, both have jobs. Can't tar everyone with the same 'young mum' brush! XVictoria - WTPPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00984294677344897041noreply@blogger.com